The bedroom can be a place of rejuvenation, relaxation, nurturing, comfort, security, safety and love as well as sensual and sexual gratification.
• If you are looking for contentment and security, decorate with blues.
• If it is rejuvenation and relaxation you most need in your bedroom, use green.
• If physical love is your need, choose pink.
• If you wish to improve the communication between your partner and yourself, choose peach or apricot.
• If an overactive sex life is leaving you exhausted, add some green to the room to create more balance. This could be in the form of pot plants if you don’t want to add green in other ways.
You don’t need to paint the walls in these colours, although some of you may choose to. All you have to do is add touches of the colours listed above. Perhaps your new sheets, pillowcases and bedcover will reflect these changes. The more ‘touches’, the more your commitment to the desired outcome.
When you share a bedroom with a partner, whose style predominates? Does it matter to you? Perhaps it’s an indication of who has the most control in the relationship and especially in terms of the sexual component. Many men let their partner be the decorator and designer. They feel women have a better eye for colour and style detail. This is not always true, so you should listen to your mate. With this book in your hand, discuss what you both want intimately and how best it can be achieved.
Compromise is the best way to decide on bedroom decor. If you understand the psychological messages of your choice of colour and style, you can discuss where you would like to be in your relationship and choose the options with this in mind. If you like different colours, perhaps one colour can be used as the main colour and the other as an accent.
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